June, 2016
HOW TO GET EVERYONE ON THE “SAME PAGE” or: HOW TO SHARE ONE VISION WHEN WE ALL SEE THINGS DIFFERENTLY.
In a sea of unique perceptions, conforming assumptions, labels, and rules, how do you share your unique vision, give it clarity, form trusted partnerships, rally support for your vision or journey?
The answer is to know what your passion or purpose is on such a gut level that everything you do, say, speak, share, comes from that unique point of view; that “you” that holds enthusiasm, surety, leadership. Find, then invite others to discover your gift of purpose…the why of you, the power of showing up in authentic manner.
Your invitation to share your “why”: being true to your truths.
Does an Oak tree grow into a willow…no! An acorn knows and follows it’s purpose, it becomes an Oak tree. Satisfy and honor your own whys, speak your truth about who you are and what your vision is, then you will attract “same page” alignment with folks. We are all connected, yet due to our experiences…we all see things differently. The folks that have “whys” close to your why are the ones that will leap on your same page, be partners, clients, friends. Getting everyone on the same page requires knowing WHAT the essence of ”you” is…your WHY, and then clearly communicate that nature. The “why” of you is your product, it serves the “whys” and needs of others when you put purpose together with need. Everyone’s “whys” are different, our differences clearly fill in and connect with others, benefit each other in profound ways.
Getting everyone on the same page requires knowing WHAT the essence is of ”you”…your WHY!
How do you find your true “why”? Begin with a bit of private purpose hunting.
1.Think of that one thing when you were very young that you loved doing, that made you smile, gave you joy, you were so good at. What was that, how did it feel? The essence of your “why” is something you just have to do…and it shows up in your childhood games, actions, favorite things. Jot these down and see the patterns that show up.
2. Then look at how you solve the challenges that come your way…do the patterns still exist, what is the personality of how you naturally navigate, flow, find, and communicate solutions?
Getting everyone on the same page requires knowing WHY you are communicating.
Everyone has different needs or wants, is your benefit created from your authentic purpose of being…your “why”? Are you communicating your lists of attributes, or are you communicating unique solutions that only you can bring to the table, that beg to come out and be shared for a greater purpose than “what” you do? What is the igniter or purpose of your communication? Watch out for the “whats”…they have no value for people, no real reason to understand or jump onto your bandwagon. Folks respond and understand quicker and rally to your support when your talk resonates with your core essence, aligns with their core values and needs. They are touched, and drawn by your purpose.
1. Jot down what you believe your top values are and how they benefit others. Is your “why” in communicating self-serving or does it show your essence or purpose in an enthusiastic way that engages other’s hearts, desires, minds?
2. Now you have just begun to think in a purposeful manner…pick your top benefit that you must offer, you do it all the time. You are getting some hints on your purpose!
The outcome of communicating your purpose: You get everyone on the “same page”.
The “same page” is a beacon of purpose. Because…you send out a beam of unique truth that attracts those that need the help or the benefit of your “why”, your purpose. Like the acorn that grows into an Oak…you express your natural talent and your “what” becomes your “how” as you know and communicate.
You have a special something that others need and want when you show up and express purpose in your life and business.
Can you show your communications in simple universal speak?
More than 80% of folks now “get on the same page” in understanding by using visual communication. Visuals have been proven to be a universal language that registers in a person’s brain faster than written copy. Show people your vision, your focus; communicate clearly via custom made visuals that show your story; its details, key points. You can use Quick-Sketching as a tool! How did the cave men show the essence of a story of the hunt, who had power, territory…they drew pictures.
Get folks on the same page with your story…find and express your purpose story and then telegraph it out to others to join you with clear quick communications!
Happy same page landings!
I’m Paula Brown, Visual Scribe / Purpose Discovery Coach / Author. I am a visual storyteller and “purpose guide” showing you many possibilities to IGNITE YOUR STORY, YOUR ENERGY, YOUR WELL-BEING for business and life. My site is: www.chilightful.com Connect on: LinkedIn, Twitter. and you can “like” my facebook page at: www.facebook.com/ChiLightful
